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Love & Sex Q&A #98

Love & Sex98

Are there times you would rather masturbate than have sex with a partner?  If so, when?

Never.  I always choose sex with my partner over masturbation.  The only time that I masturbate is when I don’t have a partner handy.  Seriously, why would anyone choose masturbation over the real thing?  Granted, masturbation is a great way to get to know your own body and what turns you on, but when you have a partner there are so many other ways that you can be turned on even more.

I also prefer not to masturbate because for me I like for all that sexual energy and tension to build so that when I do have sex it’s an even bigger explosion of pleasure.  I can understand if men don’t feel the same way because for them “blue balls” can be quite painful from what I’ve heard.  Masturbation can also help increase a man’s stamina.  Practice makes perfect, so, wank away boys!

I’m going to add a poll to this one because I really would like to know how many of you would ever choose masturbation over sex.