I have been asked this question so many times by men in particular that I decided to see how many of you would be willing to answer.  I usually avoid the question like the plague, but on occasion I have been known to give an answer.  Even rarer, I’ve answered truthfully.

This question has given me more grief than any other when it comes to relationships.  I believe that a person shouldn’t care how many people I have or have not been with if they truly care about me.  The past is the past.  So just let it go.  Unfortunately, not everyone can do that so easily.

I also think my voyeuristic nature makes me want to know where I stand compared to the rest of you.  This is going to be fun! LOL

Here’s your chance to answer truthfully and no one will even know it’s you.  I’m even going to put my answer in here to be fair, but I’ll wait until I’ve gotten a few responses first though.  I don’t want it to be too obvious what my answer is.

Oh, and just to clarify, I don’t go by the “Bill Clinton” definition of sexual relations.  I view the term “sexual partner” as including all types of sexual contact including oral, anal and vaginal sex.  So you don’t have to have had intercourse with someone for them to be considered a sexual partner.  Maybe you just gave or received oral sex.  If naughty parts were involved, it counts.  Hey, maybe that will actually help get some of your numbers on up there. 😉