So I did end up jumping back into the sea of Plenty of Fish. Even though Woody & Airman both found me offline, they contacted me online. I still haven’t met Woody, Airman stood me up that day, and I went out with a new guy who I met on POF. I had a really great time with him. He was handsome, funny, and I really had no complaints.
The problem is that after our date that night he slowly stopped texting me. Airman did the same thing. So I have stopped texting them. I don’t want to come across as pushy or even worse, desperate, so I’ll just let it be. If either one of them likes me enough to want to talk to me or hang out again, then the ball is in their court now.
It just irritates me when people don’t at least say ‘thanks, but no thanks’ or ‘I’m just not that into you.’ Something is better than nothing. It’s like the guy who I talked to a few weeks ago. We chatted online, exchanged numbers, text messaged for a bit, and then talked on the phone for almost two hours. He even sent me a text after we got off the phone and said that he really enjoyed talking to me. Then I never heard from him again.
So I just don’t know what to think about these men anymore. Even the ones who I think are nice decent guys end up not having the balls to say how they really feel, even if it means not wanting to see me again. If I can’t find a great guy who sends me flowers and wants to woo me and be my best friend, then I wish I could at least find one that knows how to be honest.
Happy humping (or not humping)!