Jerry Reed is my muse. Yeah, I know he’s dead. That doesn’t mean he can’t still be my muse, well, one of them at least. If you don’t know who Jerry Reed was then shame on you. Go Google him. He’s awesome. He had this song called “The Bird” and I love it. If you’ve seen Smokey & the Bandit, then you’ve seen and heard Jerry Reed. He was a great storyteller, comedian, singer, actor and musician. For some reason I always thought of him as the perfect man. Not only was he handsome, funny and talented, he also had a charisma and charm that you don’t find very often. I’ve met maybe two or three men in my life who had that same type of charisma and charm.
The first is the Preacher. I don’t quite understand it because he usually comes across as the strong silent type, but he’s also very charismatic. Over the years he’s charmed his way into everything from my mother’s good graces to the attorney general’s office. Not that he hasn’t had his share of enemies, but even his enemies won’t deny that he’s a talented charming man. In a way I think that it’s the main requirement for being in the ministry, other than being a Christian of course. Then again, there are plenty of ministers who aren’t actually Christians. They are just in it for the money, the prestige, or the power. It’s sad, but true.
The Preacher has always been a hard working business man who knew how to “win friends and influence people” and no, he never read the book by Dale Carnegie or took the course. I did though. It didn’t really help me very much. I’m still working on it. Now back to dad. He just has that special something that people are drawn to. I wish I had it, and in a way maybe I do and just don’t realize it. I think I just lack the confidence to back it up.
The next was a former boss of mine. I think I’ve mentioned him here before. I worked for him for almost two years and those were two of the best years I’ve ever had financially, professionally, and socially. The Doc is an incredibly intelligent man who had a couple of degrees, a doctorate, and was also a CPA. That alone is impressive, but he is also one of the funniest, most charming men I’ve ever met. He could probably charm the panties off any woman, without even trying. The amazing thing was that he did it all without coming across as cocky or arrogant, which he perfectly had the right to be. He and I used to sit in his office and listen to music on his computer as we would go over the accounts. We talked about everything, not just the accounts.
I remember one day we were sitting there going over things and a song came on and he asked me if I knew who the band was. I asked “which band?” He said, “You know…The Band.” Ohhhh. LOL I felt a little ditzy at that moment, but the way he said things made me feel so comfortable. I knew he was only teasing me. He was also a huge flirt, but not in a “sexual harassment” kind of way. He was attracted to intelligence and a good sense of humor, of which I have both, so we got along great. 😉 It’s been almost six years since I moved and left that job. I really miss the Doc. He was the best boss/friend I’ve ever had. As a side note, he also warned me that I was making a mistake by marrying my second husband. He knew immediately upon meeting the Ox that we were severely mismatched. He was right.
The last man I met who had that special something, that charisma and charm that is so indescribable, is Art. I know, I know. I’m not supposed to talk about him, so I’ll only say this one thing. Just because things didn’t work out between me and him doesn’t mean that I can’t appreciate what a special guy he is. His charm, intelligence, creativity and charisma are what attracted me to him to begin with. OK so that was two things. I’m done now.
I guess my point here is that when fate brings these special people across our paths, we should take it for what it is worth and just feel blessed that we had the chance to know them. I’m not an elitist or anything, but I do know how to appreciate intelligence, good humor, charm, charisma, creativity and talent. We all have our good parts and bad parts. It’s up to us to strive to make the good parts shine brighter so that the bad parts are diminished.
Again, I apologize for the lack of backlinks, but I’m typing this up on my computer and then posting from my phone.