When did you find out the most about what pleases you sexually and what was it that you learned? Have you discovered more through long-standing relationships or through short periods of intimacy with different lovers?
When? Well that would probably be several years after I started having sex. When I started I was too self-conscious to concentrate too much on what I liked. I was more worried about whether I was doing it right. LOL Once I realized that I was doing a pretty good job and was supposed to enjoy it myself, then I was able to explore what pleased me. And did I ever. The number of one-night-stands alone gave me plenty of practice and opportunity to explore what I liked and definitely did not like.
The few long-term relationships that I had gave me the opportunity to explore even further into what I already knew I liked. Also the comfort level that I had when I was with one person for a long time gave me the chance to open my mind and body to new experiences and techniques that I might have been too embarrassed to try before or didn’t even know existed. Thank God for sexually experienced men. They make the best teachers in the bedroom.