Could you fall in love with someone you weren’t attracted to sexually?
Could there be a more perfect question for me? 😉 I could fall in love with someone who I wasn’t sexually attracted to, but in the long run it would cause problems. For me to be in a committed relationship I need to be sexually attracted to the person. Love just isn’t enough. I have however fallen in love with a person that I was not initially sexually attracted to, but over time the emotional love caused the physical attraction to grow. It still wasn’t enough to keep me interested in the relationship though.
Maybe I’m shallow for wanting a good-looking lover that I’m sexually attracted to, but I just don’t think I could spend an entire lifetime with someone who I didn’t want to kiss or have sex with on a regular basis. It would leave me feeling unsatisfied and probably cause me to cheat in order to fulfill those physical and sexual needs.