Archive | July 9, 2011

Just What the Doctor Ordered?

I have a confession to make.  I’ve always had a strong interest in S&M, bondage, and dominatrixes.  In fact I wish I could be a dominatrix.  Not only would I get to wear hot outfits (corsets are very hot), I’d get to slap a guy around a little and use a whip, which I find to be a huge turn-on.  My real-life personality is so low-key and submissive that the thought of being dominant, especially to a man, just gives me goose bumps all over.  To let that small part of me out now and then would be a huge release.

The reason why I have been thinking about this a lot lately is because I had a bit of an epiphany the other day, and then yesterday I saw a post from Lafemmeroar that made me think there might be something more to it.  Maybe EB just needs some discipline in his relationship life.  I wouldn’t mind being the one to whip him in to shape. 😉  I know it probably sounds silly, but to me it sounds like fun!

I went over the list with EB the other day because he wanted to know why I was dumping him.  It turned out to be quite an interesting conversation.  Who knew that there are guys out there that actually want to improve their dating and relationship skills, and not just so they can get laid more often.  He was very receptive to my constructive criticisms and suggestions.  I had expected him to get defensive or outright angry with me about it, but he discussed it with me calmly and attentively.

We cleared up some things that we seemed to have had miscommunications on, and I think we actually made some progress.  I kind of like the idea of helping a guy, and his future girlfriends, by giving him some advice on what to do and what not to do when you first start dating a girl.  It’s all just my opinions of course, but I believe that some of my pet peeves are probably shared by many women.

I have the feeling that I’m probably going to get reamed pretty good for this, but what can I say?  I’m an optimist.

Happy humping & have a great weekend!