The trust would be gone for me. Eventually I might recover and be able to trust the person again, but they would have to earn that trust.
Now, for my side of things. I’m a hypocrite when it comes to cheating. I hate to be cheated on and I will leave any man who cheats on me. However, I have been a cheater and have only been caught once. To me that time that I got caught didn’t even really count because I had just met the man who caught me cheating.
Prior to my cheating on my ex-husband I never considered myself to be the cheating type. It’s hard to cheat when you’re never with any one person long enough to be committed. I was a player and I liked it that way. I like variety and I got what I wanted.
After cheating on my ex-husband I got caught in a vicious cycle and became a serial cheater. I felt like no man deserved to have me all to himself, so I did whatever I felt like doing, with whomever I felt like doing it with. I was too good in the sack not to share my talents. While dating one man, I’d throw in a one-nighter for good measure, then move on to the next man. While with that man, I’d find someone to have a little fun with on the side. Even when I was with Bobblehead Nerd, I cheated on him with Continue reading