Archive | January 14, 2011

Annoying Pop-Ups: When men just won’t stay away.

Why will some men just not go away and stay gone?  Over the years I’ve had relationships that have ended and then years later these men show back up and want to be all friendly or even date again.  If this had only happened once or twice, then I wouldn’t even ask this question.  However, this has happened no less than a dozen times.  It always seems to come in waves too.  Once one pops back up here come one or two more.  It’s happening again I’m afraid.  I’m seriously starting to consider changing the email address and messenger id that I’ve had for nearly fifteen years.

A couple of months ago one of my ex-boyfriends popped up and wanted to chat online.  Thanks to the wonders of the internet this is usually how they end up contacting me although I have also had a few actually call me.  So once he started messaging me online, then here comes another one.  Same thing, pops up wanting to chat online.  The first one I haven’t seen in eight years Continue reading