Archive | January 12, 2011

Why do men find me attractive?

Skaterboi said something to me last night that got me to thinking. Skaterboi said, “Why do I find you so damn sexy? Why do you make me so horny?” Well Skaterboi, I’m really not sure that I can answer that. Why is it that some men find me so attractive?

I don’t consider myself to be hot or even beautiful. I sort of think I’m pretty.  I know I’m not ugly, but since I was a kid I’ve felt like the geeky average looking white girl. I’m short, curvy, a redhead and I wear glasses; not exactly what most guys consider to be their ideal woman physically. However, there are many men who like short, curvy, redheads that wear glasses. Beauty must truly come from within because otherwise I wouldn’t get laid nearly as often.

This will probably come across as me being conceited, but I think I am a wonderfully unique person. I’m fairly intelligent, witty and funny at times, courteous, kind, considerate of others, and lots of other good stuff. After all, I am the Preacher’s daughter. I was taught how to act like a lady and to treat others with kindness and respect. Listening is one of my strengths and I believe that’s another thing that attracts men to me. Men like women that will listen to them, pay attention to them and be able to converse with them when they are ready for a breather. I’m naturally a quiet and shy person and it usually takes time for me to open up and let people see the real me. That’s probably why I enjoy writing so much. It’s my way of venting all of my feelings and opinions, even if no one ever reads it. It also helps me to focus and to put things into perspective.

So why do men find me attractive? Is it my personality? Did I just inherit the Preacher’s gift of quiet charisma? I wish I knew.

Why do you feel that the opposite sex is attracted to you?